September 20, 2011

September 20, 2011
Life Choices


Welcome to another day in my life. Today is Tuesday and I hope you are having a safe and great week so far. Dab the AIDS Bear and I are still dealing with situations going on in our lives so we will apologize to our friends and Dab the AIDS Bear fans for not being online more.

For most of us, life is not easy. Every day we have to make choices in life. Sometimes the choices are easy to make and sometimes the choices are ones we have to make out of honor and duty.

I recently had to start making some very hard and difficult personal choices because of current situations in my life. The problem is our choices often impact the lives of others. While I would wish my choices would never unintentionally hurt another person, sometimes that can not be helped.

So having to make certain choices in my life recently, I know I have hurt someone who is very dear and a wonderful person. I know the person is disappointed, upset and hurt for which I am extremely sorry. But due to the current situation, there was no other option I could make in my choice.

So this time, I have had to chose to let someone go in my life in order to serve my obligations and duties. This will also allow the person to be able to find what they want in life without being restricted to their obligation to me. Unfortunately, there is no painless way to let someone know the decision or situation. I can only hope they understand and after their disappointment and hurt subsides that they will still want to be friends.

I never get personal in my blogs when it comes to relationships and friendships. But this was one occasion I knew I had to do so. I also know the person reads my blog often and will be reading this.

So while I know you are now hurting, disappointment and possibly even mad with me; that I truly would have done whatever I could to avoid causing you pain. But sometimes a man has to stand up and make the right decision because of situations in their life. I wish you the best because you deserve the best.

I am going to keep the blog short today because I could easily ramble on but the message is there. For those of you who are reading this, some of you might have been in a similar situation. Leaving someone, whether it is a short term relationship or a long one is never easy. Even when you are doing it for the right reasons, it causes someone else pain.

Hope all of you have a great Tuesday!

Until we meet again; here's wishing you health, hope, happiness and just enough.



big bear hug,





Daddy Dab